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My kids are my life.

Heartbreaking Abuse of Power  
My kids are my life.

March (2011)

I am a mother to five kids, my youngest is 3 years old and at present are all in Local Authority care.

To have your kids taken from you is the worst possible thing that can ever happen to anyone. I can’t begin to explain the hurt, the pain in your heart every day. I’m never told when my kids are crying for me, when they are ill, or when they have hurt themselves. Even though I have full parental responsibilities and my children have their rights too.

I have made mistakes in my life I won’t deny that, but I’ve never ever’ harmed any of my kids.

I’ve done everything possible to prove I can be a good mum.

I have just completed a ‘Triple P’ course (Positive Parenting Program). I am drug and alcohol free but the social workers don’t care, it seems they are just wanting to keep my kids forever.

All contact sessions with my kids go really well - every social worker assistant says so!!! I ask myself why shouldn’t contact sessions go well?, I love my kids and they have made it very clear that they love me to and want to return home? Every safeguarder who as witnessed our family together has stated that we are a very close and loving family and the bond we have between us is unbreakable. (Safeguarders are persons who may be appointed by children’s hearings or sheriffs when they think this is required to safeguard the interests of the child in the proceedings. Their role is to provide support and advice for the proceedings) Yet, the social worker is completely ignoring all this evidence in any of her reports in proceedings.

The social worker has made it very clear that she dislikes me. She continues writing false accusations and information’s in her reports even though I have not met with her in sometime. I have evidence to show the social worker to be inaccurate in her reports.

I will admit my wrongs but I have now turned everything around. Why can’t the social worker admit to her wrongs and let my kids come.

Please help me, my kids are my life, the social services are tearing my family apart and I feel that nobody listens.

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